Introduction

    介绍

    Investment is the key thing that leads to attraction.

    Breaking rapport is the stage that get the other person to form that initial investment. That is the first trigger, or spark, of attraction. Once that initial investment is there you want to capitalize on it and use that to continue the interaction. This is where qualification comes in. If breaking rapport is the spark of attraction then qualification is the attraction wildfire.

    投资是构建吸引力的关键。

    打破和谐感是他人开始投资的时候。打破和谐感是第一个触发器，或者说，是吸引力的火花。一旦最初的投资已经有了，你想要利用这一点来继续谈话。这就是筛选到来的时候了。如果说打破和谐感是吸引力的火花的话，那么筛选就是吸引力野火了。

    While many may understand the essence behind qualification it might be difficult to actually think of specific questions or use your own ideas while in set. It can be challenging to try and create your own, so we thought that compiling a list of them into a guide would be the easiest way to help others get an idea of the types of questions and statements they should be aiming for whilst creating their own qualifiers.

    虽然有很多人了解了筛选背后的本质，但是实际上，在组合中想出具体的问题或者使用你自己的主意是困难的。这种尝试还有创造出你自己的筛选是有挑战性的，所以我们想编译出筛选列表作为一种指导，这应该会是帮助别人创造出自己的筛选问题和陈述最简单的方法。

    The point isn’t to just memorize a bunch of questions off of a list, rather you should be thinking of the traits and characteristics that you are seeking for in a partner and qualify the other person based on those qualities. You will often find that deep rapport is developed as a result of qualification. That is exactly the type of connection that should be forming!

    关键不是仅仅将列表上的筛选问题记下来，而是你应该想出你认为你的伴侣应该具有的一些特性和性格，然后基于这些品质去筛选他人。你经常会发现深层次的和谐感的培养是筛选所产生的结果。而那正好就是应该形成的连接类型！

    As always, as you continue to speak and interact with the opposite sex you will find that this is something that will occur naturally in conversation. Use our examples as a guide and then create your own. If you come up with any other great ideas or questions feel free to send a message to adam@attractionexplained.com and we can add it to the next list. Ways to Qualify – Adam Lyons

    和平常一样，如果你持续地和异性说、交谈，你会发现筛选会在你们的谈话中自然发生。把我们的例子作为一种指导，然后创造出你自己的。如果你想出了其他好主意或者问题，随便发我信息吧 adam@attractionexplained.com 然后我们可以把这添加到下一章列表中。筛选的方法——Adam Lyons。